My sister also was an addict and passed away in 2008. I will never be whole again and I keep stuffing the pain down and filling the hole in my soul with heroin but I never am rid of the pain nor am I ever joyful and worst I think of allI dont even feel alive. Demri didnt wear glasses like that girl. She is not, as widely but wrongly believed, the woman on the cover of Alice in Chainss album Dirt, released on September 29, 1992, that is model and actress Mariah O'Brien. Yes, shes there. Makes me wonder whether genius will always, without exceptions, come with an enormous cost. She was perfect just the way she was, Demri could pull of any look and this picture is a great example of her versatility as a model. I was the only one with a real job and I should have been saving to travel but spent it on making Andy look amazing and it irks me to think someone is claiming to have made his hats! Layne wants to quit, Demri doesnt, she has developed a fatalistic attitude towards her life. She said something to me, I said something back, and that was it. When he disappeared from performing, it became almost impossible to find a current photo of him. Pictorials. Thanks for this site. So go to youtube and search for this: She was the biological daughter of Kathleen Ann ne Austin and Dennis Wayne Dougherty, but at the time of her birth, her 18-year-old mother had been married to Stephen John Parrott, aged 21, for 21 days. Layne was flipping through the channels and stumbled on the John Edward show Crossing Over, on which a medium claimed to speak to audience members dead relatives. I am an agnostic. He walks around flipping his hair and trying to hump everything he thinks might have a vagina. Once again, I am sorry you have lost so many people that you loved. not demri.will try and find the link to the post that says she was not available/she and Layne not together at the time. Pictures of Demri Lara Parrot. Drugs can bring you to the highest heights. Last Updated: May 2, 2022: View Complete Profile. I was into the grunge scene since my brother first brought home a copy of Nirvana Nevermind in 1991. Im confused. Im loving this website and to found out more about Layne and Demri and how unique they were makes me really happy| . Demri was bisexual, and she was a nudist. When I called Christy about Demris Wake she asked what happened because Demri had just been there Monday night, which was the 28th which matched with Tom. Laura. she looks really different than in her other photos, still pretty, just a little rough and worn down. I will forever cherish our short time together. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Layne is one of my favorite musicians and as soon as I saw and read about Demri, its easy to see why she was loved by so many and still is! Layne Staley & DEMRI PARROTT's Relationship: Tragedy, Love & Grunge Demri was born in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, in the United States of America's Pacific Northwest. Demri is a beautiful woman. Happy to know you found and enjoy the web site. Murphy, and Christa Dougherty (step-sister)) Nationality: American I know Barb and so many others that knew Demri and Layne and were close to them, loved them dearly and that they are both very much missed. Now for the more positive things: Demri Parrott (which I recently found out was pronounced Puh-Row) was described by everyone who knew her as a bubbly, charismatic and beautiful girl. Demri Lara Parrott (1969 - 1996) - Genealogy - geni family tree At that point, once the pig valve is in place, and so many surgeries, and pain, she continues to go for the drugs to soothe and medicate her misery. Later, as he got deeper into heroin, he almost seemed stooped over and maybe a little bow legged in AICs last concerts in 96. Best Of Luck to you Ms. Jacqueline from Scotland. Certain parts of this story are definitely true. I watched so many people either die or just become such a broken mess they probably wish they were dead. Revisit the final painful interview of Layne Staley - Far Out Magazine You do that on your own! I ran into Darin a few days back always nothing but love when we see each other. I hope so. His vocals cannot be matched. Is it possible to be Demri on the left? You could say that I believe in alternative medicine, have you heard about the raw vegan/ vegan movement? The two soon became engaged but eventually broke up around 1994. DAVID DUET At our next rehearsal, Demri and Layne walked in together, and within a month I was doing guest appearances with Alice in Chains, singin Bowie songs and stuff. Late 96, Demri started backsliding and this was around when I finally met her. Then they put out Tripod and yet again Layne would not be able to tour because he was so sick. Older more successful groups need to talk to some of the up and coming or simply make a video so that record companies can play it to newly formed groups. Regardless, they were engaged for a short time. Ive read things on here claiming that she took his money and relied on him financially, but I cant say Ive ever read anything to say this is true. , Hi, Rosheen and Demri RIP Rosheen Raugi June 19th 1997, Demri Parrott and Layne Staley Love Hate Love, More pictures of Demri can be found on my Flickr account at:RememberingDemri. Thank u to everyone who takes the time to read this ! I knew Andy before her, but I started getting a lot closer to Xana than I ever had with him. Rare pictures show her to be dark-featured and pretty, with long black hair and dark eyes. For me, I was blesse dot have been there when it all happened ( Im from L.A. Blessings from Iceland. Demri Parrott. Demri didnt die till the morning of the 29th, in her mothers arms at the hospital. Again not blaming if we knew then what we know now. Did she have a license? Lol. No problem.. Maybe Ill find a little peace now even without credibility, just like you always thought was possible. A month after I saw her on the bus, she was dead. ), Press J to jump to the feed. They are blessed to have had a great friend in you who will tell their story and stick up for them so fiercely too. Thanks for visiting the website and sharing the video but that video has been around for awhile and it is not Demri.. But NOBODY should romanticize this story. . Hopefully be a soulful powerhouse like him. *, I will pray for you and your family, God bless you Susan. Jul 10, 2014 - Layne with fans New Years Eve 1999, reportedly last public photo in circulation. She introduced him to heroin, though he probably was doing other drugs before her, such as coke. She died on 29 October 1996 in Evergreen Hospital, Kirkland, Washington / Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, USA at the age of 27. I guess Im looking at the wrong fb pages. Id last about 3 days. To be honest.. Ive never read Demris obituary but wed have to ask the person who wrote it why Rosheen was not mentioned.. maybe they did not want to confuse people? But my son also dabbles in drugs. Layne and Alice in Chains bassist Mike Starr were watching television on April 4, 2002, the day before Staley died of a heroin overdose. For opening your heart with all of us, for sharing your love and passion for Demri, for making her not being forgotten e_biggrin.gif ) His anime of choice back then was Vampire Princess Miyu. If I can explain it, in words, in detail then a sober person MIGHT understand. I went to the video and checked and I dont think its Demri because: 1. They dated for 2 years after getting together in Mar 1988. Layne tries his best to help, but she wont listen, her body probably being beyond help at this point, and telling Layne, let me go, its too painful, just let me go. Demris story haunted me when I first learned of it a few years ago. Demri Parrott Death Fact Check, Birthday & Date of Death - Dead or Kicking Shes perfect in every way. She is proud of us the same way we are proud of her, and she loves us as we love her. Pictures and info about the woman who stole Layne Staley's heart and inspired fashion trends during the '90s Seattle grunge era. Despite never getting too involved, she is still my alpha and omega, my joy and sorrow, my beginning and my end. Quite a few wrongs have been righted by the existence of this site, the amount of BS out there about these individuals is beyond belief. Demri would be proud of you One Day Ay A Time. She loved to model and I love this picture of her, Rest in Peace Sweet Girl Demri Lara Parrott 1969-1996. Heroin becomes their lover, their mother, their friend. These are the last photos of Demri taken 8 weeks before her death. And Marilyn had no family to help her, she was alone in all this. Big hugs! This website was also made with the AIC fans in mind and to introduce you to themthe real Demri not just the girlfriend of Layne Staley. I hope your doing better. Theyre both special persons in their own right, and both should be acknowledged as such. my heart aches when I see these pics. Its so sad that two talented people lost their innocent lives to the demons of drugs. I cant get it to paste & post, but at least the other two are still here However so. Hopefully others will not make the same mistakes that so many of us have. We welcome your contributions so please create an account if you would like to collaborate with other editor's in helping to shape this website. WTF are you talking about? It is believed that her death has overwhelmed Layne so much that he returned to addiction. He seemed to think that because he never shot heroin he was better than Layne. Writing your own book would be such a trip..imagine visiting the old places and mentally putting yourself back there to get into that mind frame to write.how bitterweet. More about Demri Parrott edit Dating History # Rosheen Raugi Layne, I was yours for the asking, but you never asked. So thanks for always showing us the best of Demri! She was 4' 11" (150 cm) tall and weighed 100 lbs (45 kg) with a slim build. She did her movies, needed a babysitter for many, but she got through it all. I relapsed and used from april to june of 18. Would love to hear & read your insights on them. Ethnicity: English, Swiss-German, Irish, Scottish, remote Welsh, possibly 1/64th Cherokee Native American. Demri looking sweet and beautiful.. she was such a natural beauty. Thanx though cool video.. they were all such dorks when it came to interviews. Kathleen will verify the full name thing too. They refered to her separately as a groupie who lied and tried to have sex with them and they said NO so she slandered them. Greetins from Brazil!:). Such a beautiful woman with so much life and soul in her. Believe me. What a hard an painful situation. xx. RIP. Someone who took many drugs, uppers, downers,narcotics, yet she always tried to better herself, in acting, in life. Layne did mention that he was affected by Kurts death. So im postive thats why Demri got so sick again after her heart surgery cause her new valve was so sensitive. Having been an avid fan of grunge for well over 20 years, I had always wondered about those references to Demri in relation to Laynes demise. Why? Today the sitereceived a comment from Demris Mom Kathleen which is so special because she thought of us and wanted to let us know how she felt today and I personally wanted everyone who watches this site.. friends, fans and people who loved her a chance to hear from her Demris Mom today. I hate the way he made people feel, so worthless and small. I also want to be straight up about why Demri, Layne, Rosheen and Mike are gone now theyre stories should never be romanticized. I visit it often . Yes, I like both men and women. Truly a loving person. Thank you again, Layne. Yes, she was sick from herion, but so was Marilyn. Thanks for all you are sharing. Jerry did love Layne but there are definitely 2 Jerrys. She was human. Those things would be great, I just wanted to be there when others werent so they had a safety net at all times. Her memorial service took place on November 2 at Neighborhood Christian Center, and donations were made to Harborview Adult Medicine Alcohol and Drug Rehabilitation, Harborview Medical Center in Seattle, Washington. One story has Demri trying to kick drugs & dating a coke dealer in the final days of her life. me too, i wonder what it is about her that's so magnetic! Rest in Peace my sweet friends. Youre in my thoughts and prayers. They were always fine with my vegetarian dishes but I wanted to get some nutrients in them and meat on their bones, which is pretty much all I could really do to help. I also took the photo of Demri with the red white and blue tights on, I gave her the tights from my work Fantasy Unlimited, and we went to see our friend Pony and I think she and Pony dressed up then we took a few photos, this being one. Like I said, Ill pray for you and hopefully god will lift you up. I have IBS, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, so I shouldnt be taking anything, but the pain is so bad. Demri Parrott (demrilaraparrott) on Myspace Prayers are with you at this Holiday time. Much love to you. I was a reference for him. I think she, Nancy, and Mike Starrs mom have been through hell. It will ruin your life. I dont know why I chose here, maybe I need to vent or maybe I just want to share a little bit of the truth as I perceived it. I ask them to send me the strength I need. She was only 27. She had been using off and on for a few months. Darin was there but I wasnt because I was in the process of having my first baby and didnt even know about it until it was too late because I was out of the social loop at the time.. Stop this. She did not come here to learn any lessons she came to teachshe taught unconditional LOVE and from what I can tell she continues to do so..Do not place any attachment or story to my mothers headstone for Dem that story will come out after my mom is no longer around.. that is another story Thanks for the oppurtinity to set a few things straightI know the misinformation did not come from you sorry if I appeared to be venting perhaps I was a little. Of course we all make mistakes for Gods sake and so what?! at this time of year. Who was she as a child and a teenager? When someone you care about turns blue and stops breathing that will mess with you forever. Hadnt seen that one in a while,its been around forever. As a mother, I cannot imagine losing any of my kids. She had been clean for a little while before she went in and shot heroin with that guy she was dating. You have to want it or its impossible. Youre a wonderful woman. It is believed that Layne met Demri sometime in the late 80's or early 1990, as she is thanked . Red carpet photos. Just saying that Demri could have done so much more. This site is so beautiful, props to those who made it/run it! I actually edited my response so I hope you got to read the whole comment I made. People are complex and I never knew her but it seems this tribute site exists because she earned it. My tricuspid valve was infected and a large vegetation had grown on it. that doesnt makes us bad people! PS: Sorry for my bad english, hopefully my words have been understood. Did Layne Staley lose his teeth? They both were on a downward spiral without a safety net. I know he was taking care of Layne and buying groceries and making sure he was eating and cared for. I left Seattle because I was very stupidly stuck on Layne and I knew that probably nothing was going to come of it. Random. Theres an interview with AIC from 1999 on RockLine (Im sure you know it) where Layne calls in, and at the end of the interview he mentions that theres a girl he was friends with that had turned into a freak. Unknown Demri photos : r/demriparrott - reddit Haha! I wish Demri had that same desire, to want to be an actress/model, who read books, studied acting. If Layne Staley weren't in AIC, you wouldn't give a fuck about him, and the same can be said about any famous person you like. However, I was very struck by the beautiful young woman with him in pictures. Teri, Mark Arms girlfriend, was maybe going to live there and then Chad from RHCP did for a little bit but they all had their issues. Then there was some stuff with his mother that I just cant share here. I dont think they were good friends but they had used drugs together when their bands were playing at the same show in south america somewhere, if memory serves.and the ride home. Demri lost that place in Feb. Because she could no longer afford the rent on her own. Please take care if you. He thought Demri could see him from heaven so it didnt want to upset her. Rosheen was clean at the time and doing awesome.. but then she relapsed and on June 19th 1997 she passed awayshe was only 22 years old. Again thank you. I paid a professional hat blocker a lot of money to help me with the final construction, but I bought all the fabric and designed them, I dont even know who Rachel is. Im trying to post a comment and a link to a video, but all that appears when I try to publish it in this site is: your comment is awaitting moderation!! The comments above and below have provided a welcome clarity on the Demri/Layne situation after MUCH reading for the last few days. No that is not true I come here today, Oct 30 to pay my respects because Oct 29th I didnt forget but rather I was being told after fighting cancer for 6 long years that the cancer had returned and given results of my scansit is now in my ovary, uterus, also back into breast and 2 lumps one blocking a duct in the breastso basically I was trying to take in that I dont have much longer to live and what I will need to do as far as my kids, etcbut still within 24hrs I came to pay my respectsjust because someone doesnt post on a site on a certain date doesnt mean that the person is still not remembered. It seems like Demri was homeless, staying here and there. Stay away is all I can say, I have met very few people who have just tried heroin and not become addicted. One story he told her mom the other her dad. I will also never let you be forgotten as long as my heart beats.this website was made in memory of you, Layne and Rosheen..and now sadly, Mike too. Felt a little CRAZY. You were like a mom to them,making sure they were eating and breathing. Demri was five feet tall and tiny, and Xana was six feet tall and, like, Amazon. Just rude and no respect Or those already gone like Demri and Layne.. best thing they can come up with is they have a life to live??? It was never about, How are we going to prop him up to get him on a tour? I had this conversation with Layne over and over and over after the success of Facelift: Your health is the most important thing. But sometimes feeling it completely is what we need to do. watch?v=dBZm-_6Qa3k RIght before Demri died she had been about to move to Hawaii with her father (or stepfather, I forget which.) Their friends warned against it, rehab for both many times. Most of us refused to turn someone on for the first time. Anyway, Layne introduced my friends and I to Demri, and Ill never forget my first impression of her she was this angelic looking little thing, with the biggest, most genuine smile She took my hand in both of hers, and told me what a pleasure it was to meet me. Those guys literally made magic and Im so grateful to even have existed when they all did. There are very few happy endings for heroin addicts. According to Alice in Chains: The Untold Story, it was love at first sight. AiC was playing a show that night at an old fire station in Redmonddo you remember that place? Yeah were gay, wanna join us? LOL! Especially a timeless celebrity like Layne Staley who left behind such a powerful legacy of music that continues to be important to so many people. . What a wonderful site and tribute to Layne and Demri. Every parent wants their child to grow up healthy and successful. She loved creating decopage with 30s and 40s vintage style images cut outs from wrapping paper or old greeting cards. However they clearly adored each other and this is why they remain such a large part of each others legacy. Death is forever and you are needed in this world. Just human. Id love to know more about her in her younger years before she went out with Layne. Then management needs to discuss the contents with the bandlet them know its a brotherhood or sisterhood. I could not have put it better.Recovering addict myself. (Doubtlessly there are some people who were there at these times and knew things differently. He moved to the U District, to a condo right above this tavern called the Blue Moon. I honestly hope so but if not.. no judgment here just love and understanding. Yet, MM continued on til the day she died. It is not worth experimenting with. Thanks so much, your website and memories are so generous and appreciated. I think shes someone that facinates many people, and from what Ive read, she probably would have been equally facinating to know even if she wasnt Laynes girlfriend. Was she brought to this career choice based on struggles in her own life? Thank you B! So right now and since june of 18 ive been sick as hell waiting to have my new valve replaced again. Born Demri Lara Parrott on 22nd February, 1969 . Marilyn Monroe. Although I know that my parents did the best they could, I want more for her and never want her to feel how I have so many time. The next time Id run into those people who just meant to try it once would almost always be totally caught up and addicted. >:(. She goes into rehab and comes back to the car gets in and falls asleep while he runs errands. Thought the site was abandoned but I know life gets in the way. I know they seem crazy and all, but I have heard peoples stories on YouTube about how veganism, particularly the type that involves mostly raw fruits (unprocessed raw produce is key) changed their lives. Check it out and let me know. He is at rehab all drugs are drugs so I think he was right, besides why not. It might have been here. . I bring it up also because I know her family would prefer it be used that way. There is a thin line between being a friend and being a parent. From then on, he said, he just wanted to do art and make music for his friends. You can just tell when you talk to certain people, especially females. When Layne would relapse or even admit to weakness in the last few years that I knew them Jerry would get very patronizing and very smug. In the position he was in, its probably the only way he couldve had a lasting relationship. Not the fake books that have, or will be coming out about them, by authors who have no real knowledge of them. But all the while enjoying experiences that you must cherish greatly, I imagine. A bit like the tutu story . You need to get well. So that would be nice. There was one time I found a spoon, and it was obvious what it had been used for. I wish she could of figured it out before it was too late but the truth is.. very few do but the ones who can are super humans and should be extremely proud and share their stories of hope with the ones who havent gotten there yet. Hey everyone, im a long time lurker but never have posted not sure why. -Chris, Was wondering if you ever went on any road trips with Demri to see AIC? Not sure why but it left me feeling weird. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Oct 29th is a day a lot of us who knew and loved Demri will never forget. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Barbara, I found an interview of ALC at the backstage of Lolapalooza in 1993 and the good news is that Demri was caught by the camera . I would love to read more about this era and i know there is alot of crap out there but in your opinion which book written about that time in history on AIC and even mentioning Demri would you think is the most accurate?? Demris mother, Kathleen Austin got that teddy bear back after being found in the things Layne left after his death.